Have you ever been invited to a meeting in which you do not have any input into the agenda? Or where one side of the meeting tries to lord over the side? Telling them what to do and trying to determine the entire narrative? In battle terminology that is called taking the high ground, which is supposed to give you a distinct advantage. In this article, we will discuss how to level the playing field and why grabbing the high ground is not advantageous for you. Relationships should always be bidirectional, with each side giving what is expected of them and taking what the other side has to offer. When done properly, the relationship should provide a win-win, where each side benefits. This is true in all cases even when there is an obvious hierarchical difference - whether it is personal, vendor/customer, employer/employee, partners and even competitors or any other form of collaboration. If there is no way to come up with a win-win, the relationship should be terminated. As examples:...